Did you ever wish you could fly? Ever wish you could just soar above everything? Get a fresh perspective?
I have. I even used to dream about flying when I was a kid. It was the one recurring dream I had and it was awesome!
Free as a Bird
My dad designed and built our house; he and my mom bricked the whole thing.
The house had a big picture window in the centre. Directly below that was the garage with a long driveway leading up to it.
There was a high bank of lawn on the left side of the garage driveway and a high bank of lawn on the right.
In my dream I would fly high above the left lawn, arms stretched out wide, swoop down over the low driveway, then up and over the right side of the lawn. After a few passes, I’d swing up even higher where I could see everything.
It was such a rush!
They say dreaming about flying is related to feelings of empowerment and freedom which makes sense.
How have you been ‘seeing’ your challenges?
But I’m writing about birds-eye views because I’ve been reading a great new book called, “Stop Playing Safe,” by Margie Warrell.
The book is all about how to take more risks, overcome fear and become more courageous in your career — and your life.
(people, not cats)
Warrell suggests that taking a birds-eye view of your challenges can really help you see them more objectively.
Imagine you are looking down at your life right now. How do you see it?
“So try to observe how you’ve been observing things. Observe the critical judgments that you make. Step back and notice the type of lens through which you view your life. Is it tinted with optimism or pessimism, excitement or anxiety, anticipation or dread, confidence or self-doubt? Notice how that lens shades your interpretation — of people, situations and yourself — and consider how those interpretations may be serving you and how they may be failing to serve you.”
You may discover that how you’ve been seeing things has caused some of your stress and unhappiness.
This non-judgmental way of looking at your own thoughts says Warrell, can help you tame the ones that are no longer serving you.
What would Steve Jobs do?
She also suggests you think about how someone else, looking down at your life as you are now, might see your challenges.
If they were to see what you’re dealing with (and how you’re dealing with it) what might they suggest you do differently?
Thinking from the perspective of someone else, can give you lots of fresh ideas. Those ideas can spawn solutions to get you unstuck and moving forward.
“Free as a Bird”
I’m going to go do that right now — just as soon as I watch this flying video.;)
c 2013 Kathy Barthel